Sometimes it is so hard to work with people. I get so aggravated with people that you cannot be real with. Why is it so hard to tell someone the truth? If someone is doing something for you, and they are trying to see "your" vision for the project, why not tell them if the way they are going is not what you envisioned? If I am spending my time working on a project for you, and I am not seeing it the way you want it...why, oh why won't you tell me so that I can get it right and not waste your time and mine? Mainly mine, because I am the one putting in all the hours of work. People say that they don't want to hurt someone's feelings by telling them whether they "like" something or not ... but isn't it more hurtful to pretend like you like it to their face and then go behind their backs complaining to everyone else that you don't like it??
Aren't we all grown ups here? As long as you aren't rude or hateful with what you say, it is okay to disagree with someone. We don't all have to like everyone or everything the same! We all need to work on speaking the truth...in love. That makes all the difference in the world.
Whoa....I think I really needed to get that off of my chest. It has just been a crummy day today.
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